Tuesday, 25 September 2007
@ 5:40 pm
looks like i came back to my blog after all. lols. being lame and yeps, i changed my skin. again you may say,but i just wanted to add a new look to my blog lets talk something more specific not just some random rubbish yeah ?hmm.. from some of my observation and discussion looks are important overalltake this for example, i scan through one of a forum and found this questionWhat would you go for? Looks or personality.well i went in this thread and saw most of the people saying that they will go for personality and that personality is more important compared to the looks which many of you agree to this i guess but how many of you actually give those who are ugly and not so good-looking a chance to really see what their personalities are ? today, if a person, a classmate who is shabbily looking and ugly at the same time walks up to you and try to be friendly to you, would you give him a chance to really have a conversation with you or would you just act coldly towards him?comparing him, ugly but kind hearted and a handsome/pretty but flirtatious which both of them you just met and base on your first impression, i bet most of you would choose to befriend with the handsome/pretty one instead of the ugly one. & its only human nature to do so. Because when you see a dish which looks totally appetising and a dish which looks KNS, all of us would choose the appetising looking dish. so naturally, the bad-looking one often lose out because practically no ones give them a chance to express their inner self, the beautiful side they have. another thing about looks are, those who look cute and innocent wins in a quarrel, normally the one that cries first won the fight. and normally, those who cry first are those clever ones who know how to manipulate others sympathy for them. when one cries, the onlookers of the quarrel would sympathise with her and in turn scold the other person as if all the faults lies with herso technically, the one who cries won the fight another one is when a innocent looking and a not so innocent looking person quarrel, the innocent looking one already won half the battle. people see things base on appearance. they think that the always innocent looking one are ever so innocent, just like their appearance and looks. what they did not manage to see , are the personality of them. it is only after several people being hurt by them and relate how the person really is can others know their real characters enough of all the personality and stuff kimmy said to me something so amazingly brilliant today according to her, mr tien told them about a student taking psychology course answering the exam or whatsoever question which goes like this "describe what is courage" or something like that. and that particular student only wrote 3 words THIS IS COURAGE OMG he is so damn brilliant man if you still don't understand why i think he is brillianti shall explain to you writing only 3 words in an exam?! it takes immense courage to do that i guess he is the 1st student to do that and dare to do that only 3 words to describe courage and more of using an action to answer that while others are busy scribbling away the definition of courage and blah blah blah he use only 3 words 3 friggin words !! and guess what, he got a distinction !! woah nice courage.he fully comprehend the meaning of courage and use action to show what is courage pro man !!! thats one friggin great courage quite a long post i made today because later, i will be doing my f&n project lols
